BEING THE PERFECT MOTHER FOR YOUR CHILD(REN)

I JUST LOVE THIS - I felt a sense of relief like I could breathe a deep exhale. So often we get so caught up in being/doing better, but when you just sit back and realise, these babies chose you, they need YOU - not perfection.

Which brings me to my next point, our children need us to be more US than ever before. After a very fast read of UNTAMED By Glennon Doyle, (if you haven’t read it you MUST) It really helped to cement my belief and knowing that we are called to earth to become OURSELVES...⁠ Sounds weird and a bit out there but just say it again quietly to yourself.

HOW COULD I BECOME MORE ME?

I am holding this in my heart right now because I am going through the biggest personal transformation of my life. I’m walking my dear mother home to the creator and it is soul-crushingly beautiful. I can feel my cells changing with all the lessons, my DNA changing, my approach to life strengthening and my heart breaking into a million pieces. This is allowing a whole lot more SPACE, less rigidity and I can FEEL more than ever.

The rollercoaster of FEELING has broadened and expanded and I can SEE myself more and therefore I can SEE my children more in their uniqueness and vibrancy, it’s truly incredible.

 But the message I keep getting is “step into YOU, be more YOU” which at the moment is changing my daily habits, changing my work, changing my choice in clothes - it’s like walking in new high-heels, a bit wobbly but feeling FAB! Way less perfect, way less contrived, way less people-pleasing and WAY MORE ME.

So super mama, I would invite you to ask yourself HOW COULD I BECOME MORE ME?

See where the journey takes you. Feel free to share what this brings up for you, I would love to hear.

 Emily x